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Discussion Question #9
Can Voldemort love? Would things have been different if someone loved him?

This great question was thanks to arenee1999 who saw the question in this forum

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Re: why?

[condwiramurs.livejournal.com]

My point wasn't that Dumbledore was lying. It was that he's making *assumptions* - rather common, ugly assumptions that play into common misogynistic tropes - that he gives no actual evidence to support. (And my larger point is that JKR is, probably unconsciously, relying on some really ugly misogynistic tropes in making such a simplistic narrative argument and expecting the audience to buy it.) And the argument that Merope was barely out of the house doesn't really support or condemn any particular argument, since every argument has to deal with that fact in some way in order to get the characters together at all.

Her being poor and oppressed doesn't rule out er desire for love. But it does mean that Tom is dealing with someone who, as far as he knows, *can't effectively fight back* if he chooses to take advantage of her. What would he gain by such a move? Power; a sense of control over someone; sex; all of the things that privileged, powerful men have throughout history gained by taking advantage of poor women. It's not only about money or adolescent rebellion (it's hardly rebellion anyway - it's as traditional as you can get. Droit du seigneur, it's called - the assumption that you can do as you please with the serving-girls and the like because you are the master and they are there for your pleasure. See the Strauss-Kahn affair for simply the latest incarnation of this.)

Of course this is as well-supported as Dumbledore's argument - we DON'T KNOW for sure. Which is part of my point: people take Dumbledore's *assumptions* as equivalent to *knowledge,* when historically the reverse is at least as likely a scenario, if not moreso. But blaming the woman is the traditional, and misogynistic, way out - and blaming the not-conventionally-attractive people is an icky theme running throughout JKR's books. Of course JKR was doing it in order to get a plot point - that doesn't mean we can't critique the way she went about it and the foundations of the tropes she draws on.

Re: why?

[condwiramurs.livejournal.com]

And I didn't even touch on the ickiness of the suggestion that Tom was evil because he was born of rape (asserting a causal connection implies that children born of rape are necessarily evil or, at the very least, predisposed to be evil). That's REALLY not cool, and the argument that she used a potion really needs to take this into account if those supporting it want credibility in my book.

Re: why?

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did I said that? If I did I admit to being wrong, I never ever ever meant to imply that because it's Bad bad stupid assumption.

also, I like, would like to think rowling didn't meant the raep baby= evil babies. i mean that's a Horrible thing for a woman to say! and like, didn't her ex-husband beat her or something? so i dont think so.

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now i totally think she didn't meant all the ugly misogenist thing and it just came out, because pre-harry potter fame- She Totally was like Merope! bad husband, left alone to take care of child- poor.

so i dont think she meant it!

Re: why?

[nevrafire.livejournal.com]

i want to say that I wasn't trying to be Mean or mysogenist to merope. and of course she deserved love- her family was Horrible, Horrible so she deserved something better. I know merope is th victim, and i never said she was a bad person. I mean she ended up dead because she tried to support a child by herself and couldn't survive in the end. Tom riddle Sr. is a monster.

also- i should have said this before- when I said I support the love potion-as fact. I was not saying that because merope is ugly and poor that was the only way she could get Tom Riddle Sr and it's Her fault Voldemort is the way he is. the way I see it, merope Might Have used the Potion on Tom riddle Sr. - and that is Bad. But that was a mistake out of desperation But it takes two to tango- so like, I think Voldemort turned out the way he is because most likely Tom Riddle Sr. I mean his character is not described really nicely- except of being handsome- but he's a horrible person.

what like, I was trying to say is that we have no evidence of the love potion being used Not being true or being true- its 50/50. so we can't know if dumbledore is assuming things or knowing the truth and call him evil meany liar- because he and us reader got half truths/info. that the problem is not dumbledore, even if he did do some sucky things, the problem is that the story/rowling left it ambiguous not totally clear.

. and either way Merope got a really sucky outcome either way- regardless of wether she was pretty/ugly rich or poor- this is a girl that got knocked up, the "boyfriend" found out and left her to survive alone. and then she died. :(

like my whole point was not to jump to conclusion on who is lying/making stuff up because readers didn't got all the info- rowling does and she didn't made it clear and that was bad.